Friday, August 29, 2008

too harsh of a response????

I have absolutely no desire to even go to your wedding much less be in your hick wedding. Oh wait, it wont be a hick wedding cause dad is paying for it.

And for you to ASS-Ume that my daughter would be in your wedding. Um, not so much…



yes, it's only a wish-response

4 thoughts:

Inspiration said...

well...maybe. Maybe you should sleep on it. :) I would probably type up my response and put it in "draft" mode and wait a couple days. Keep her sweating.
From what you describe it sounds like she is a bridezilla...and you don't need to deal with that during your pregnancy!!

She Smiles said...

I'm with thinspiration, maybe you can say that you can't deal with the stress of you and DD being involved in a wedding during your pregnancy. Then that'll buy you some time to come up with a good excuse to not go at all.....

Amanda said...

Ditto.

More important to focus close to home. I wouldn't let your DD know that she had a choice. Might be hard to wrap her head around. If she does find out or you tell her, let her be the flower girl at the christening or whatever you are planning to welcome the baby. Pretty dress and all.

OK total stranger signing off.

christines iphone said...

oh you guys are NO FUN!! ;)

i know i cant send that to her (unfortunately)... she's the baby of the family - both literally and figuratively - and it would instantly go straight to my parents.

we (DH and I) have decided that DD will be in the wedding and i have decided i will not be. in the email to her (i'll send it Tues or Wed - i like the 'let her sweat it out' suggestion) i'll just say DD would love to be a flower girl, but i am going to pass on a bridesmaid. i'll let her respond and ask why if she wants to know more.. if she does i'll just say i'll have a newborn and dont think i'll be able to handle the commitment of being in a wedding...

thanks for your responses.. :)